In today’s society, especially in Western culture, a woman’s role can be very difficult. Throughout history women have fought for equal rights and now things in that area are much more balanced than they used to be. However, what about you as a woman feeling confident in yourself?
Are Men and Women Viewed the Same?
In the West as a woman ages it is all about wrinkles, weight and what you look like. Even the terminology used to describe aging men and women is different. As a single man ages he becomes a distinguished bachelor while a woman becomes a hag like spinster.
I’m here to tell every woman that you’re perfect just the way you are and I can prove it too!
If you have watched the movie ‘What the Bleep do we Know?’ you will learn that quantum physics have proven that when one gets stuck in a negative thought process your brain literally rewires itself. It can take up to 30 days to undo this type of rewiring so you are no longer caught in the grips of a negative thinking process. Keep this in mind as you continue to read. It will become very apparent how easy it is to change and learn to honor yourself as a woman.
Before we get into that though we must take a look at manmade dualities. Fat/skinny, ugly/beautiful, narrow/wide, straight/curvy and so on goes the exhaustive list. When you take all of those dualities out of the picture what are you left with? Nothing but the Divine Spark of perfection that is in everyone. Ladies, we have all made bad decisions in our lives but that does not make us bad people. You are perfect just the way you are.
The Road to Female Empowerment
For most of us we do not believe it at first and even may feel frustrated. There are the emotional days but out of nowhere BOOM, you suddenly believe it. Not only have you calmed down your negative critic but you have also taken your power back from other people as well.
I have often been found walking around the house or yelling into a hole in our Mother Earth “I take my power back!” Ladies, the more you believe what society tells you is right for you, the more of your beautiful energy you’re giving away to a negative situation. Save it for those that deserve it, like you! Others will notice the change in you and that’s when you pass the message along to someone else in need of help.
Reclaim your Power and Honor Yourself!
• 1 seven day red candle• 1 pen• 4 drops of sweetgrass oil
Write your full name on the top of the candle with the pen. The ink will not show it will just carve it into the wax. Add your four drops of sweetgrass oil, as this herb banishes negativity and bring positive things into your life. Rub the oil three times on the top of the candle clockwise. During this time focus on your intent to reclaim your power. Let the candle burn and when it is done take it and bury it at a cross road and do not look back.
The Mirror Effect
I know it is hard not to take things personally but this is the mirror effect. When someone says, “I don’t love you” or “I don’t trust you,” what they are really saying is that they do not love and trust themselves.
On this special day, remember the voices of the women who have fought for years for all of us ladies in order that we have the rights that we do now. Tap into that energy and bask in just how far we have come. Reclaim your power, honor yourself, be proud of being a woman and always remember you are perfect just the way you are!
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