It’s just two letters in the alphabet. It seems so simple. All you have to do is say it, right? Wrong!
For light workers and kind-hearted people, who want to help others, “No” is by far the hardest word to speak.
It’s All about Energy
When you have a healing and loving energy, you’re automatically a channel giving that energy to others and touching their lives. Energy is how we connect with each other by creating cords that attach to each other. It’s kind of like you have constant strings of energy dancing in your energy field. When a person wants to connect, one cord reaches out and connects to another person’s dancing strings!
These cords can be different colors, or sizes. I know with relationships they tend to be silver or gold and much bigger and stronger. Friendships are smaller cords of blues, greens, reds, purples, and pinks. It all varies based on the energy in each relationship. This is just how I visualize it, and visualizations are different for each person.
Connect the Cords
Once these cords are connected, you start drawing energies from each other. This is normal! However, there are some people who will start to drain you, because they will be asking for your help all the time. As a light worker you will want to reach out and say yes, even if it effects what you want to accomplish at the time. However, if you feel tired and weak or you want to sleep, it’s a problem. That’s when you know it’s time to say No!
You may feel like “No” is the worst possible word you could say to someone, and I am here to tell you, it’s not. Saying “No” is how you are able to set boundaries with people, so you can be happy and accomplish goals in your own life.
Have you ever noticed that when you are drained and burned out that negative things start happening around you, or to the people around you? If you have, this is why.
Save the World
As a light worker, you want to save the world one step, one person, one tree, and one animal at a time. It is your right to feel this way because you have tons of good restorative energy to give.
Sometimes you forget that it’s not all about saving the world. Sometimes it’s just about saving ourselves and keeping a balanced energy in our own lives. You can’t keep a balanced energy by sacrificing too much of yourself, and it’s your healing energy that changes the world.
Learn to say “No”!