We often begin to over focus on the desired outcome by living in our heads too much of the time rather than continuing to move forward in our daily lives. Waiting and watching for when it will happen… How about now? Is this the moment? Maybe this is? As we act this way, we begin holding our breath like we’re actually waiting for something, any sort of sign to validate a prediction. Maybe it’s a phone call or text message, a certain date that we expect to be coming. We begin to create anxiety and a huge amount of fear.
We somehow start feeling all of our happiness, love and joy reside in front of us for when the event actually happens. The flip side of this is, is that when the pain of the waiting becomes too much and we’re exhausted from it, we start looking back on the times we were happy, and suddenly we value where we were then far more than the moments of now.
True, those memories can give us a few pain free moments, but we can't live there either. The past is gone. That's when the depression sets in. Sound familiar? Thus the almighty roller coaster ride.
It becomes all about escaping the pain. Our life has become a place we no longer want to be. We’re miserable, we feel stuck. This is actually a great time to consult a Psychic Advisor to get some insight.
Letting Go Allows The Energy To Flow
We Are All Connected By Our Energy
Every thought or emotion we think or feel and take action on moves us to tomorrow. That's where we've been looking so forward to being. Thinking repetitive thoughts, obsessing, living in our heads for fear that if we let go of the object of our desire will disappear is the real illusion. Letting go, doesn't mean you don't want it or its going away. It's quite the opposite.
When we can let go and start living from a more balanced place, if we can put it on the back burner knowing it's still there, we open up the energy to allow it to flow through us, most likely bringing what we have been holding our breath waiting for that brought all that pain and suffering to us to subside.
Trusting The Universe