Other people consistently fall for someone who is emotionally unavailable, even though there is intense chemistry in the connection, the other person doesn’t have the courage to step forward.
Several of my clients have had partner after partner be abusive to them but they don’t know why the person they’re with is mean to them.
Some deep part of yourself is scared to accept good behavior. Something makes you feel you aren’t ready for true, deep caring and compassion.
It could be something from your childhood, or the fact that you’ve been hurt before and now you don’t trust that love can happen for you. It could be anything. The reason or deeper subconscious belief is different for each person.
The one thing that has been consistent though, throughout my time of reading for people, is that when a pattern becomes apparent in life, it’s time for you to look at that and examine it. It’s imperative that you don’t just keep going the direction you have been, because obviously that isn’t working for you if you’re stuck in a repetitive negative path.
Dig deep inside and ask yourself why: “Why do I consistently see someone who is unavailable? Why do I accept abusive treatment? Why do I wait for someone who repeatedly doesn’t give 100% to me?”
Whatever your pattern of behavior is, the way to deal with it isn’t trying to “fix the other person.” The healthier way to deal with it is to look inside yourself to find out what is causing this pattern in the first place.
Many of these negative patterns stem from not believing enough in yourself. Even very successful, amazingly happy, people still have self worth issues that they fight through every single day. None of these patterns have an “easy fix;” but finding a way to love yourself as you are will go a long way to bring positive love and companionship into your life for the long term.
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