In my angel cards, this is called “Unrequited Love”. It’s where one partner is all in the relationship and trying to make things work, while the other partner keeps running away because of the fear of being hurt. There is normally a very strong attraction between the two, and an energetic bond which is what is keeping you two together. However, this relationship can be toxic for both of you, if it is not nurtured in the proper manner.
How do I Avoid this Kind of Toxicity in my Relationship?
Pushing your partner to come running back will only push them further away from you. You don’t want that when there is a deep connection involved! You want to enjoy as much time with your partner as you can, and giving your partner space will bring about happier fun times between you two later!
What if a Compromise Cannot be Reached?
A person who is constantly running from you will leave you on an emotional roller coaster, and you will be riding by yourself. Sure, roller coasters are fun, but an emotional one can lead to stress related health issues and a poor state of mind. For some, it can even take away your personal power and leave you with an empty feeling. If you notice yourself in a lower state from your normal self, it’s time to go!
You cannot change people, people can only change from within!
Allow that change to unfold and happen naturally for a healthy, long lasting, loving relationship.