How to Embrace the Love and Loss of a Soul Mate Relationship
Connecting with a soul mate can be one of the most profound experiences we have as humans. But soul mate relationships, like all relationships, come with both joys and challenges. Let’s explore the deeper meaning behind soul mate connections, why they may not always last, and how to heal when it's time to let a soul mate go.
The Sacred Journey of Finding Your Soul Mate
A soul mate is someone you share a deep spiritual connection with. It's a relationship that transcends regular human love and feels divinely ordained. As psychic Leslie shares, "Soul mate is generally tied to the biggest chunk of work I’m here to work on in this lifetime, and that person is going to help me through it and vice versa."
When you meet a soul mate, you often feel an instant bond and a sense of "knowing" them on a soul level. You may be part of a soul family or soul tribe. Your souls may have agreed to work on certain lessons or heal past wounds from other lifetimes. This is why soul mate relationships have a fated feeling about them.
Soul mate relationships can take many forms. As psychic Colin explains, "Sometimes soul mates are married. Sometimes there’s an enormous age difference between soul mates. I’ve met soul mates who were 50 years apart and one was a caregiver providing end-of-life care to someone who was in fact a soul mate and they had finally crossed paths at this time in their lives."
The key is the depth of spiritual growth and healing that happens when soul mates unite. Even a brief encounter can change your life forever.
Why Soul Mates May Not Stay Together
Just because someone is your soul mate doesn't guarantee a "happily ever after" in this lifetime. As psychic Noah shares, "You will have many soul mates in your life. But not necessarily does a soul mate have to stay with you forever. It can be temporary. It’s okay to let go and move on to the next."
Here are some reasons soul mate unions may be temporary:
- The timing is off. You meet at the wrong time when one of you is already in a relationship or married. As psychic Leena says, "Soul mates can go lifetimes taking a pause, a break from one another and need to just find each other. Maybe they’ve got unfinished business."
- Your work together is complete. The lessons your souls agreed to learn have been learned. The healing has occurred. Now it's time to move on. Psychic Karenna notes, "Finding your soul mate in this lifetime doesn’t necessarily mean that you’re meant to be together in this lifetime."
- It's a brief destined encounter. Your souls planned to simply cross paths and exchange gifts or lessons. There was never meant to be a lasting union.
- One soul chooses not to fulfill the connection. If the other soul mate is married or in another relationship, they have free will to choose not to be with you. As psychic Carmaleena explains, "If the other person is in a relationship, it’s up to that person to say 'Yes. I’m going to fulfill my soul mate connection with you by stepping into that arena.' Or they may just say 'No. I just cannot do that. I’m going to stay with whomever I am with.'"
How to Heal When a Soul Mate Leaves
Losing a soul mate can be devastating, even when you understand the spiritual reasons. You feel the loss not just of a person but of a deep soul connection. Here are some tips to help you through it:
- Trust in divine timing. As Colin shares, "I know sometimes we do cross paths with soul mates at the wrong time. But I go into that knowing that we’re going to cross paths with them in another lifetime and we’re still going to get the opportunity to be with them again."
- Focus on your own growth. Use this time to work on yourself and discover what lessons your soul gained.
- Keep your heart open. There are more soul mates and soul friends out there for you. As Karenna advises, "What you and I can do is look at what it really is you want in a relationship. And I can take a look and see whether or not that’s on its way and if it’s not, what you can do to attract that." Psychic Leena affirms, "There is somebody for everybody. And even if it takes you 20 years to find them, they’re there. You just have to know how to embrace the energy."
Losing a soul mate is difficult but can also be a catalyst for profound spiritual growth. By embracing the journey, you open your heart to receive blessings and wisdom that will propel your soul evolution to new heights.
If you’re struggling with the loss of a soul mate relationship, don’t hesitate to reach out. Speaking with an experienced psychic advisor can provide comfort, clarity, and spiritual insights to help you through this challenging transition. A psychic can tune into the spiritual energies surrounding your connection and help you understand your soul’s journey on a deeper level. They can also provide guidance to help you heal and move forward with an open heart.
Make an appointment with one of our gifted psychic advisors today. Discover your soul's divine purpose in this and other lifetimes. A psychic love reading can bring peace of mind and help you gracefully embrace all that your soul mate journey has to offer.
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JamieRN: Very, very helpful. I cried as I read viewed and listened to what was being said.
keishawash80: do have soul mate Keisha Washington 10 16 1980 is his jesse
hopeful2221: I am in a twin flame relationship. it is very painful, we are apart at the moment and it has been up and down the last 6 years. I am doing some work with twin flame healers. Both who are in a relationship together. I wish I would of fallen on their website and you tube alot sooner. I would of experienced less pain. They believe that you can heal ancestral issues, etc. Since I have been doing this, it has helped tremedously. I am an empath and have learned to clear dark energies and many other things impacting our relationship. I have done a personal healig session with them and know exactly what the issues are. There are lots of things to be healed and transformed. Twin flames come here on earth to heal and transform the earth's grid, dynamics etc. And they believe that yes absolutely you can heal them as well as yourself. We are on a talking basis again, and I am moving to his area in the summer. It is the most difficult and painful journey ever. J.L.
myheart2: Incredibly helpful! Thank you for addressing this topic! My journey is one where pursuing togetherness (at least in this lifetime) would have meant the unraveling of many many years' worth of previous commitments, families, lives, etc. and the decision was no. So difficult! Yet even in that, the close and warm presence of the journey itself is there every day and it makes me smile! Thankful and Hoping to unite under different circumstances....someday?
Soulmatejourney: The most painful relationship you will ever endure, exhausting....yet the most intense the most beautiful and life altering....my soulmate journey is everything difficult with obstacles and challenges, and pain the loss is unbearable but being told we are meant to be together has taught me the lessons within this predestined journey. I want to personally thank Sadia for helping me and guiding throughout all of this.