You feel like it was real, and if you can just say the right thing, they will open up to you again. Perhaps, they are running away in fear and they just need to realize how much they still love you. These are common thoughts and feelings after a breakup. The question to ask yourself is, do you really want your ex back? Was this a relationship that fulfilled you or was it a constant source of trying? If this is truly a person you want in your life, keep reading.
Getting Your Ex Back
Begin by placing your hands on your heart and taking three deep breaths into your heart. Don't try to text them, email them or call them with the hopes of saying the one thing that will change their mind. Just stop.
Instead, get a piece of paper and write them a letter saying everything you want to say. Then, DON'T SEND IT. Even if it is the best letter you've ever written, don't send it. You must be strong during this stage.
Next, lean back into your center. Change your posture so your arms are open and you are leaning back into yourself more. Then, get in touch with what you want.
Work on You
Take a new class, do what makes you feel sexy, dress up, flirt, move your body, or try something different. When you feel sexy, they will not be able to resist you. It starts with getting out of your old self. Even if all you feel like doing is going to bed and disappearing, give it a try.
When they move toward you, lean back even more. Don't jump on them like a hyper puppy. Take your time. Allow them to pursue you, this is part of the fun. Let them enjoy it.
Keep it up. Enjoy your new you and your new life.