Meeting someone new brings with it plenty of thrills and excitement. You begin the delicate process of getting to know each other, understanding how the other person communicates, and whether or not you like the same things. As you begin to date a new guy, it’s important to watch for signs that he may not be “the one” for you. Check out these red flags that the guy you’re seeing is undatable.
He Tries to Control You
Attempts to be controlling can take different forms. For example, he may try to tell you how to dress, what to eat, and where to go. His controlling ways may show up in his frequent texts and questions about where you are and who you’re with. A guy who wants to control you is not someone who’s looking for a true partnership.
He Doesn’t Have a Job
In tough times, it’s possible he’s legitimately between jobs. However, if he doesn’t show any initiative to find work, that’s a red flag. You don’t want to stay in a relationship with someone whose financial future is so uncertain. If you’re unsure about the direction things are going for your guy on the job front, find an online clairvoyant to help you see what may be on the horizon for him in terms of employment.
He Isolates You
Any guy who prevents you from seeing or contacting your family and friends is bad news. In fact, this is a prime indicator of potentially abusive situation. He may be discouraging you from being around your support network because they’ll alert you to his controlling and abusive ways. Anyone who isn’t enthusiastic about the people you love isn’t a good fit for you.
He Isn’t Forthcoming
Does your guy hide information from you? Instead of telling you the whole truth, he just tells you part of what happened. Any shortcomings in regards to honesty is a red flag. Worst case scenario, he could be cheating on you. It could also be a sign he’s capable of sneaking around. This is not the kind of person you want in your life. Confirm your suspicions about his dishonesty by talking to a live psychic online or over the phone.
He Complains a Lot
You have to ask yourself whether you want to spend your life with someone who has a negative outlook on life. Some guys think everyone’s out to get them or cheat them. It’s draining on their partner to listen to that kind of negative talk. It’s unlikely you’ll be able to change his perspective in the long-term. Instead of trying to change him or stick it out, it’s better to end the relationship before it gets too serious.
If your guy shows any of these red flags, it’s time to evaluate seriously whether or not he’s the right man for you. Some of these warning signs are connected to the potential for emotional and physical abuse. Watch for these signs, and don’t be afraid to consult a friend, psychic, or family member who can confirm your suspicions.