How could this ending have been avoided?
This is where surrendering to the Universe is so necessary. Trust that the Universe knows better than you what is good for you. You will start seeing that every pitfall or failure is in fact the Universe saying, no, not this person, no not this business venture. Keep moving—Aaaaand, there you go, that’s what we were guiding you to. Does that make sense?
The Universe blocks what does not honor or serves you. If you insist in drinking a toxic drink, the Universe will teach you through the experience that, indeed, this was not for you. Sometimes we want something that does not align with our light, and so the Universe gives us what we need.
Stand with self-respect as you face the experiences that created you as you are today.
End the Blame Game
If you are single seeking a beloved. Make this statement: “I am cleared of all past lover and predators, I release all regret, I am free and whole. I walk the path of healing myself, because I love myself. Because I love myself, I am ready to share my love with my destined beloved. I (say your name here) call upon my beloved to share my life as lifetime companions. And so it is…”
Use a mantra to drown out the denigrating voice of the monkey mind castigating you for being a failure. Rewire the habit of self-loathing with more self-acceptance and dare I say it… Give yourself more self-love.
You might ask, how do I rewire my thought patterns? Here are a few suggestions:
- Take time for yourself to connect with nature
- Use guided meditations that offer you unconditional self-love, abundance mind set, living in the present and so on.
- Trust your gut (honor your intuition) but be discerning. Are you being paranoid or is that your root and sacral chakra telling you something just isn’t right?
How can you navigate the dissonance?
By being still and feeling the emotions course through you. Take the one choice and be still. What does your body feel? Does your stomach feel nauseous; do you feel ill at ease? Now, take the second option. Do you feel light? Does your body feel calm?
That is how you can navigate the catacombs of confusion to get a clear reading of what you need to do.
Never forget to ask your angels/guides/allies for guidance. Give them permission to help you. Without your green light, they cannot assist you the way they would like to. Trust your heart, trust yourself and leap into space with joy.
All is well in your world, if you believe.