I Am Woman – Hear Me Roar?
So, you think women are being listened to after a quickie? Do you think he is now going to take you out for dinner? Heads up: if he knows that he is getting it so easily, he isn’t going to suddenly step up and treat you to dinner, a movie, flowers, or possibly a phone call! Sorry for calling a lot of guys out here but… Men have gotten casual sex because it is being HANDED to them!
Okay it looks like judgment in this article and rightly so! Women have gotten so far in this country as independent beings. We can do what we want with our bodies! We can go to college, we can buy our own property, we have the say-so over our own decisions! If that is the case, we also have the right to allow a man to be with us, to enter us, to cherish us, to love us, to respect us!
When we go away from any relationship boundaries and don’t expect men to really see us, really put effort to chase us, to really hear us, to really embrace us with love, care and tenderness then we are changing the rules emotionally for all involved. There are no winners with friends with benefits! A woman is not empowered, she is not respected. She is just USED… end of story!
You Have a Voice- USE IT!
I am more than aware that people are busy every day of their lives and intimacy can be a challenge in committed relationships. The difference is the conversations, the dinners, the time together feels emotionally happy and strong. Women this is your time to set the ground rules to long term relationships. That way you will be ready and if and when you want to be with a REAL MAN vs. a guy who just thinks he can come and go as he pleases!