I Do, I Don't: When Should You Pop the Question?

Published Date 8/31/2014
Category: Love, Relationships & Family

Think you're ready?

As your relationship progresses, you eventually get to a point where you wonder if marriage is the right decision. After all, marriage is a big commitment and something you don’t want to take lightly. If you’re contemplating whether to pop the question or not, take a look at these four ways to know it’s time.

If You’ve Never Been Happier

Your marriage is a major determinant of your lifelong happiness. You need to be happy now and in the future. Both love and lust make you happy, but there’s a difference between the two. Take time to recognize what makes you happy in your relationship and make sure that those things will still be in effect for years to come rather than just in the short-term.

Yes, you can get a divorce if things don’t work out, but this always complicates your life and makes it harder to find happiness and love again. If you’re getting married, you should be willing to commit to the relationship until “death do you part.” If you’ve never been happier and you know you’ll continue to be happy, it’s time to pop the question.

If You Can’t Imagine Life without Your Partner

Happiness aside, you need to know that your partner will always love and support you through the good and bad times. So, before you pop the question, you need to be at a point where you can’t imagine your life without your partner. This doesn’t mean you need to rely on your partner for everything, but you should be comfortable asking for help and know that your partner is going to step up every time you’re in need.

If You’ve Passed the Test of Time

Some people fall in love and get married after only a few months of dating. This works for some people, but not everyone. If you have any doubts about proposing, give your relationship the test of time before taking the next step. You need to know you can stand to live together and overcome arguments.

It’s normal to have arguments, but it’s not normal to argue several times a day. Your personalities need to be compatible enough to get along. If you’re not sure if you’re compatible, get a psychic love reading. A psychic can compare your astrology signs, analyze your relationship, and figure out your compatibility as a couple.

If You're Reading to Change Your Lifestyle

Getting married means the single lifestyle is over and you have new financial commitments. Before you pop the question, you need to be ready and willing to change. This might mean moving out of your parents’ house, rearranging your finances, or moving to a new location. When you love your partner enough to change your life, you know it’s time to pop the question.

So, are you ready to pop the question? The way you do it is important because everyone wants to know your proposal story. Make sure you do something memorable and special that you’ll love sharing with others. Good luck deciding, and if you still need help, ask a genuine psychic.


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