Do you have a nagging feeling that your other half is cheating? There’s a good chance you’re right. Studies of heterosexual American married couples show that up to 40 percent of men and up to 25 percent of women will have an affair. It’s not always easy to tell if your partner is cheating, so you might want to enlist the help of a love psychic. In the meantime, here are six signs that may suggest you’re not the only love of your partner’s life.
Your Partner Is Attached to Their Phone
If your partner has suddenly become attached to their phone, it might be a sign that they are trying to hide something from you. This is especially suspicious if they have previously been fine about leaving their phone lying around the house. What don’t they want you to read?
Working Late Becomes a Regular Occurrence
Is your partner putting in extra hours at work? If overtime is becoming a regular thing, you should probably question his new-found commitment to the office. This is especially true if extra work in the evening or over the weekend is normally unusual.
You Notice a Change in Your Partner's Appearance
An affair often inspires people to change their look and style. If your partner starts putting in extra hours at the gym, gets a new hairdo, or treats themselves to some new clothes, there’s a good chance they’re trying to impress someone. The question you must ask yourself is if the person they want to impress is you or someone else.
Your Partner Is Suspicious of You
If your other half appears jealous of you and starts questioning your every move, this is often a sign that their actions are the ones to question. It might sound odd, but projecting disloyalty on a partner is a common way for people to attempt to hide their own failings in a relationship.
You Notice a Difference in Their Sexual Appetite
A lack of action in the bedroom is often a sign that your partner is getting their kicks elsewhere, but the opposite might also be true. If your partner’s sexual appetite goes the other way and they start trying out a few new moves, you should probably ask where they learned them.
Unusual Items Appear on Your Joint Bank Account Statement
You may notice peculiar items showing up on your joint bank account statement. It might be a charge for a restaurant that you haven’t been to, for new clothes you haven’t seen your partner wear, or for a present that clearly wasn’t intended for you.
These signs don’t necessarily mean your partner has found love elsewhere, especially if you notice them in isolation. They may have a genuine reason for staying at the office late or, in the case of improved appearance, their efforts might be for your benefit. Problems are usually on the horizon if you notice a few of these signs together. You will often get a gut feeling about affairs, but if you want a second opinion before you confront your partner, a love tarot reading might help.