To receive love, you must first be love. It is essential to love yourself and others, and project and share the same kind of energy that you would like to receive. But that can sound so esoteric and vague? I’ve come up with an answer which is simple to understand and practice.
First, let me say that I don’t believe in the concept of “hunting,” “shopping” or “fishing” for the right person. I have never been without a suitable partner at any time in my life, although I have outgrown several. All my relationships transition harmoniously, and what is removed is then replaced with that which is fitting for the next step in my soul’s journey.
“Those that go searching for love, only manifest their own lovelessness. And the loveless never find love, only the loving find love. And they never have to seek for it.” ~ D. H. Lawrence
My mother once told a man I was dating, “My daughter is not promiscuous. She is popular.” Gee thanks mom! While I thought that was funny, and fortunately so did my date, the fact that I have never had a problem making friends and meeting partners is not because I’m outstandingly beautiful, or because I sport a coveted supermodel body. I’m also not extraordinarily wealthy or accomplished. I believe all my relationships have been a part of my current karma and come to me from divine mind according to what I’m attracting.
So, I believe that we attract our companions, friends and lovers, and it’s unnecessary in my experience to jump on sites, or go to bars, or attended churches, with the specific intent of finding the right partner. If you wish to attract the right relationships in your life, I suggest you relax and let a higher power steer the wheel. All that is required of you is to do the following three things:
1 - Know and be very clear about what it is you desire. If you put out thought to the Universe of a tossed salad, you will get a tossed salad in return. You want to be clear about the sort of relationship you need and what the bottom line is for you. I am a firm believer that to find love you must first be love. I suggest you think about all the really wonderful and loving qualities you possess and set that as a benchmark for the criterion of your relationships.
2 - Ask for, or affirm, your intention to the God or Higher Power of your understanding. In the words of the Christ, “You have not because you ask not.” Remember, if you want to cut down on your anxiety levels, our job is not to worry about how a prayer will be answered. The “how” will show up out of our commitment and belief in the “what.” Learn to become still... and take your attention away from what you don’t want, and place your attention on what you wish to experience.
3 - Believe and participate in creating your intention. Visualize! See it, feel it. This is where action begins. Rhonda Byrnes states in the popular book, The Secret, “An affirmative thought is 100 times more powerful than a negative one.” This is how we co-create our own relationships.
So, there you have it. When you are ready for that right partner in your life, keep it simple, relax and apply the above strategies. Now the title of this article will finally make sense as you jump into your KAB...
K (Know what you want).
See what I did there. With your Higher Power acting as your designated driver, you’re much more likely to arrive safely to your destination. We at Psychic Source are here to help you navigate your journey, so don’t hesitate to reach out. It is our life’s purpose to help.
“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream for love...but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.” ~ Mandy Hale