If you or your girlfriends have ever wondered where all the good men have gone, there’s a strong chance you’re searching for that perfect partner. But what makes a good man, anyway, and is it possible he’s hiding in plain view? Discover who your Mr. Right really is and find out how you can meet him while avoiding Mr. Right Now.
Who Is Mr. Right?
When it comes to finding Mr. Right, one of the biggest challenges is knowing what you’re looking for. After all, Mr. Right isn’t the same for everyone. Whether you’ve dated extensively or you’ve focused on a handful of serious relationships, it’s important to give yourself time to acknowledge who Mr. Right is for you.
For instance, Mr. Right has a way of making you incredibly happy, whatever that means to you. Whether you’re getting together for a quick lunch during a busy workday or you’re planning a weeklong getaway together, you genuinely look forward to spending time with him. Even a text or a call is enough to make your heart skip a beat.
As an intuitive love psychic will tell you, though, just because he knows how to make you happy doesn’t mean your relationship with Mr. Right is always going to be smooth sailing. Mr. Right consistently encourages you to be the best version of yourself you can be, which may lead to the occasional conflict.
Stop Dating Mr. Right Now
One of the biggest barriers to finding Mr. Right is wasting your time with Mr. Right Now. You’ve undoubtedly known at least one of these candidates, because they have a habit of appearing when you’re susceptible to distractions.
So how can you identify the Mr. Right Now in your life? He’s the type who only connects with you late at night or when he doesn’t have anything better to do, doesn’t introduce you to his friends and family, and declines to talk about anything serious. When you aren’t at your best, he’ll probably make up an excuse not to spend time together and leave you hanging.
How to Find Your Mr. Right
It may sound counterintuitive, but the best way to find your Mr. Right may be to stop searching so diligently. As many relationship experts can attest, the deepest bonds tend to build when you aren’t necessarily looking for a connection, and your feelings for each other grow naturally.
After all, your Mr. Right may not check all the boxes that you think are important. He may not look like your ideal partner, share your taste in music and culture, or have any of the traits that you’d look for in Mr. Right Now. Yet he may offer exactly the type of love, support, and commitment you’ve always wanted, as long as you’re willing to let go of the shallow connections and emotional roller coasters that Mr. Right Now offers.
Finding your Mr. Right isn’t always easy, but he’s certainly worth the wait. For more insight into the types of qualities to look for, a love tarot reading can help you understand who might be the man of your dreams.