So, you want to connect with a loved one that has passed on? There is such beauty and magic in the moment a medium connects to the spirit world!
Here are some tips for a meaningful session with a Psychic Medium:
It Takes Energy to be a Psychic Medium
The medium is a conduit in connecting to the spirit world. They use their point of references to interpret meanings for you. This is a sacred space for the medium and no matter what methods they use, it takes a bit of energy.
Keep an Open Mind
Make sure you are in a quiet zone and be open to any messages you may hear. Most often for me, the spirit energies come through in the order they want to come through! In other words, if you were hoping to hear from a grandmother, her two boisterous uncles may insist on coming through first.
Take notes! What does not make sense in the moment may make sense after talking to another family member first.
Often times they may reference something you have done recently such as a hobby or interest. Know that they are acknowledging they are still aware of your life activities!
Hold Your Questions
The medium is often trying to interpret symbols they are seeing and words they are hearing in order to give you the messages. It is absolutely fine to ask questions of the medium but doing so while they are "listening" to the spirit energies may interfere with this and make it harder for them to give the spirit energy their undivided attention.
As a medium I never cease to marvel at the divine energy and profound beauty of hearing a message from a deceased loved one.
Ask for a Sign
If for some reason the medium cannot connect with the deceased, don't be discouraged. The timing for reasons unknown to us may just not be right. Thank the medium and your deceased loved ones and try again at a different time. I suggest you talk to them and let them know you are looking for signs from them. Be specific and ask for very specific signs, for example, "Send me a white lily." You will be amazed at the unexpected place you will suddenly see your answered sign!