However, there are a few ways you can lend a helping hand to your best friend if she just lost a family member to an unexpected death. First, PsychCentral.com recommends asking your friend if there's anything you can do. Simply lending an ear might be all that's necessary to provide assistance.
Next, give your friend time and space to grasp the death, especially if it was unexpected and quick. There is no timetable on grieving, and it may take months for your friend to recover and begin to move on. Check up on her routinely to show that you still care and can provide support.
Finally, consider encouraging her to speak to a psychic medium once the mourning period is over. This type of psychic reading can put your best friend in contact with the deceased, which can provide closure and peace of mind.