Use Your Intuition in Love

9th October, 2008 - Posted by Pamela x7867closeAuthor: Pamela x7867 Name: Pamela x7867
Site: http://www.psychicsource.com/Psychics/Profile.aspx?PsyID=371
About: I have been doing readings part time since 1994 and went full time 2007. Besides using the abilities God gave me, I like to enhance my gifts with the Egyptian & Goddess tarot decks. I also have been doing hypnosis and energetic bodywork since 94. I love anything to do with spirituality, so after two years of training, I became an ordained interfaith minister four days after 9/11. I also did massage therapy for many years. I even did match making for a while and found out quickly it was not my cup of tea. For fun I like to read, write and make jewelry. People like my jewelry so I have been selling it. Most mornings I pick my jewelry first & than my outfit! The exercise I like are yoga, hiking, & dancing. Most of the time I enjoy working on my personal and spiritual growth, I am human, so there are certain things I wish I could avoid. But I do enjoy the growth I receive after I work thru one of God's lessons. Because I am a Libra, I am fascinated with relationships. I love animals, birds, & fish. I love to travel, eat healthy food, and be in the woods. Each day is a gift from God and I do my best to enjoy the gift.See Authors Posts (2)

Ah amore! It is one of the most popular topics discussed in a psychic reading. Being a Libra (the sign of partnership), I have always had a fascination with love and relationships. Unfortunately when it comes to romantic love, humans tend to put on their rose colored glasses and are impatient with timing and ignore their intuition.

So what is intuition? Intuition can be a gut feeling, an unexplained knowing, a vision, or a voice giving us direction. Intuition comes quickly, can be very soft and gentle, and often makes no sense or cannot be backed up with proof. Our ego is very LOUD, and it is backed up with so-called proof, and can explain away just about anything. Of all God’s creatures, we humans ignore our intuition the most. I often say: if you see all kinds of animals and birds running in one direction, don’t be foolish enough to let your ego guide you in the opposite direction.

Intuition can be very helpful when it comes to dating. The majority of the time our intuition will let us know whether or not we would be interested in accepting a first date or going on a second. That is when the chatter gets in the way, some examples are – so and so said they were nice, I don’t want to hurt their feelings, they are such a nice person maybe the attraction will come. Sometimes confusion does get in the way, so give that person another chance on a second or third date. For those of you who are afraid of hurting someone’s feelings, here is a great line a blind date gifted me to use and pass on to my clients, “You are a very nice person, but it’s just not clicking for me.”

Intuition is useful when you are debating if you should stay in a relationship and if the relationship is going anywhere. Deep down inside we know (in fact, some of our clients just need validation from a psychic), but this is the time when feelings, impatience, logic, and desires get in the way. Here’s an exercise that can help:

Take a deep breathe, clear your mind of the chatter, and go to place that makes you feel safe (the beach, woods, house, etc.). Stay there for a few minutes. When you reach a relaxed state, ask yourself what you need to do with your relationship. Don’t force the answer, allow it to come. Trust what you are receiving. If you do not get an answer, know that it will come later when you least expect it. The answer could even come in a dream.

The hardest thing to do with intuition is to trust it and to follow it through, as any of us psychics advisors on Psychic Source will tell you. Do it anyway (no matter what your friends and family say), you will be amazed at the results.

Last but definitely not least, if your intuition ever tells you that you are in danger with a date or a mate – LISTEN TO IT! Countless date rapes and abusive relationships could be avoided if we humans listen to our intuition. Unless we are foolish enough to go in the direction that all those animals and birds running and flying from, only to discover a huge fire… Visit our Love Psychics page to learn more.

Pamela (x7867)