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Does He Have To Admit It Is A Relationship For It To Be One?

29th January, 2009 - Posted by Psychic SourcecloseAuthor: Psychic Source Name: Psychic Source
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I hope you will find some comfort, joy, excitement, and just have fun exploring all the various aspects of love and relationships. I’ve spent years talking to women about their lives and relationships both in a counseling situation and as a psychic advisor. I’m hoping share to some of my insights with you here. If you’d like to see more or just have something to say, please share your comments with the form at the end of each article.

To get things started, this article is about the not-so-simple definition of the word Relationship!

How do you know it is a relationship if he doesn’t outright tell you?
Sometimes we are in a relationship already and we don’t even know it! Why? He (in this case it is often a man) hasn’t ‘told’ us yet that he is taking this dating/friendship/sex thing seriously so we are left to wonder where we stand. We ask questions about when he is going to commit and we wonder if when he is distant if he has someone else on his mind (or in his bed).

Often, the man in question just isn’t so good with self-expression. He may be as confused as you are about the status of the relationship or how to move it to another level. He just doesn’t have a way with words and while he is attempting to ‘figure it out’ he may be getting pressure from us to commit. Why is our chatter about commitment dangerous early in the relationship?

I’ve found in working with women that some men want to be the one to make the decision about where the relationship goes. Others just simply aren’t ready or they have some serious baggage they need to leave behind before moving forward. Waiting for these guys requires the patience of a saint and sometimes duct tape (hehe!). If you feel good about your progress with him and the relationship seems to have moved steadily forward just ask him where you stand. If he respects you he’ll not only tell you but may be wondering the same thing!

If he is treating you like a second-class citizen and no one knows you exist but him (you haven’t met the his friends or family) then it really is time to stop and think about the status of your ‘relationship’ and the place you hold in his life. If you feel like the one he calls when he has nothing else going on or he is interested in sex then you should question where it is going if you are uncomfortable in the situation. Getting a random text or phone call doesn’t signify a relationship so take a moment to assess his level of communication with you and who initiates the contact.

When it ‘feels’ like a relationship it probably is an ‘unannounced’ one. If you are unsure, when it’s the right time to ‘ask’ him about the status of your relationship, get a psychic reading with one of our Love Psychics - they can help you understand what he is thinking and why!