Finding a Happily-Ever-After When You're Single

Published Date 5/21/2014
Under: Love, Relationships & Family



You won't be alone forever.

You might feel like you're forever alone, as though happily-ever-after is forever beyond your grasp, but it's really not. Sometimes, when you want to get married and start a family, you focus on it so much that every bad date or failed relationship seems like the end of the world. It's true that when you stop idealizing and obsessing over things, they generally fall into your lap, but that doesn't mean you can't work to find the love you want.


Manifest What You Want

There's much truth behind the idea of manifesting the things that you want. If you walk around feeling pessimistic about your personal life and your chances of finding someone to marry, guess what? You probably will end up as your own personal crazy cat lady or weird dog guy. Surround yourself with positivity—positive thoughts, positive people, and positive goals. When you exude confidence and self-love, people will respond to you, and that attention may lead to something more.


Get Advice about Your Love Life

Treat yourself to a love tarot reading. Talking to a psychic is a wonderful way to learn about your future, and your psychic can tell you what awaits you in your personal life as well. A tarot reading can point you in the right direction, while your psychic can help you learn self-love and confidence. You can find out what you're doing wrong and what you're doing right. You'll also learn that you're the architect of your own life. You create your own blueprint here.


Stop Obsessing and Start Relaxing

You cannot obsess over finding love. Doing so gives off the air of desperation, and the wrong kind of people will respond to that. Try to feel more relaxed and laid-back. You don't have to sit back doing nothing, but if you stop obsessing, you're far more likely to find love. Your tension will ease, that confidence will come, and people will feel more comfortable approaching you.


Go After Your Type

Now, this doesn't mean that you have to choose one set type and stick to it. It doesn't even refer to your dream of a man with blue eyes and a British accent, or a blonde woman who cooks like your mother. Instead, think about what you want and then go find it. If you love bookworms, you'll find more potential partners at a bookstore or the library than at the bar or the ballpark. Similarly, if you want someone fun and fit, hang out at the gym, the park, and start training for a marathon. 


Take a Look at Your Standards

You don't have to lower your standards, but you do need to review them. Your love psychic can help you see if your expectations are too high. You need to think about what's most important, always remembering that the perfect partner does not exist. People aren't perfect in and of themselves. You can, however, find the perfect person for you, as long as you're willing to compromise.


You won't spend the rest of your life alone. You simply have to work for what you want, without making it your main obsession.


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