Lending a helping hand to a grieving spouse

Published Date 1/10/2013
Under: Loss & Grieving



Lending a helping hand to a grieving spouse

It can be devastating to lose a parent, but if you've yet to go through this period in your life, it may be difficult to relate to someone who's grieving this type of death. In the event that your spouse loses his mother or father, you might be at a loss as to how to help.

However, there are a few ways you can comfort your husband after a parent passes away, even if you've never dealt with this in your own life. Families.com recommends letting your spouse talk through his feelings. He'll likely have a lot to say following the death, and lending an ear can go a long way.

Try to let go of the feeling that you need to "fix" a problem and eliminate the grief altogether - Hitched magazine states that your attempts will be unsuccessful. Grieving is a process, and making an effort to give your loved one a shoulder to cry on can be enough.

When your spouse is ready, you might want to consider encouraging him to speak to a clairvoyant to connect with his loved one on the other side. A live psychic reading can give him closure and let him know that his parent is content in the afterlife.

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